35 A Return to Episode 4: How To Choose The “Right One”

I just returned from a great time at the Flourish Media Conference in Miami last week. I happened to be a speaker on the topic of mental wellness, and while I was gone, I decided to take the rest of the weekend off, and my husband came down to join me. And so I wanted to use this week to play again for you podcast episode number four, which is “How to Choose the Right One”.

As executive women or women in business, we often don't think about the importance of choosing the right mate before we get locked into relationships or into marriages. Sometimes you have no idea that you will have a desire to do more or be more or start your own business when you first get together. But what you want to do is you want to identify the spirit of the man that is going to allow you to grow into who you want to be as an individual, as well as a couple.

By the time I met my husband, I was very clear on what I wanted, on what I needed, on the energy, on the personality, on the spirit - totally clear on all of that, and so, me leaving in the middle of the week to go do a speaking engagement in Miami while leaving him here to take care of the home and the dogs, was totally fine! What we did is he just met me on Friday night and we had a great time in Miami, just the two of us, and we returned home on Sunday.

So to help you figure out how to choose the right one, I thought that it would be appropriate to replay episode number four for you.

While you're inside the episode, don't forget to download the show notes to make sure that you have everything you need. If you don't have time to listen to it in its entirety, feel free to download it and listen to it later, but this is definitely going to help you to choose the right one.

And if you need help in we'll say ‘incentivizing’ the one that you have to behave like the right one, not a problem. Just send me a message via the contact page on my website, and I can help you with that.

What You'll Learn:

• Why being 100% similar to your partner can be a detriment to the relationship.
• How to find what you want through self-reflection and assessment.
• How to create a day in the life of your purrfectly authentic relationship.
• To attract what you really desire in a partner or spouse!

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• Take the free video training Can He Handle Your Grind? and learn more about your relationship habits than you thought possible in an hour!
• How to Date Successfully as a Professional Woman, 10 Tip Download Signature Course
• Learn more about how you can work directly with Anita
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Have you taken my free video training, “Can He Handle Your Grind?” Girl, what are you waiting for? It is not just for single women; it’s also for women already in a relationship or married. Click here to access the training. Once inside, you will understand why you can’t seem to attract the right one, how you woke up one day and realized you married the wrong one and what you can do about it.