Episode 57

57 To My White Friends and Colleagues

I’ve always prided myself on being the Black woman that White people could come to to understand the Black culture.

Otherwise, how would you learn? The media? Television?

Spoiler alert, don’t believe everything you see and hear in the media.


In 2020, the senseless murders of my Black brothers and sisters were plastered all over the news, papers, and social media. I had to take time to process and nurture my own heart.

In other words, I had to put my mask on before helping others.


It wasn’t just me that was hurting, confused, and disheartened. My White friends and colleagues were hurting, confused, and disheartened as well.

Join me inside the episode as I share more about this painful experience and how it made me shift the focus of my business.


See you inside.

What You Learn:

  • What I’ve been going through the past two years as a Black woman in America
  • What allyship truly looks like and its importance
  • Some definitions and examples of trauma in the workplace
  • How I can help you go through your trauma journey or your allyship journey each step of the way

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Anita Charlot

Wellness & Retention Strategist | Corporate Relationship Consultant | Board Member | Keynote Speaker | Executive Coach for Black and Brown Women | Award-Winning Founder and CEO

Creator of The Happy Executive Woman®, the Conversations in Color™ Corporate Workshop, and the Coloring Her Dreams™ coloring book series, and author of The 5 Phases of Dating ~ The Grown A** Woman's Guide to Attracting and Maintaining Authentic Relationships. All were created to empower, uplift, and support the emotional well-being of Black and Brown women in the workplace and their allies, mentally and emotionally.